To love another is a choice we make. We open ourselves up to the source of love (it can be a process necessary to repeat many times) and we choose the object(s) which we bestow it upon. Choose wisely, if you can, because no matter what comes that person’s happiness/ brokenness will be tied to yours.

Recognize the source of love, not the object of it, as infinite, healing, and unable to be truly lost because it lies within the depths of your soul, wherein lies All.

Do not let the pain of the loss of the object make you think you have lost love, as you will risk confusing it with the loss of yourself. If you close yourself to love (because you were hurt or are afraid), you close yourself to yourself. That is the greatest mistake anyone can make, for it is only within yourself where you can hear the answers to the questions resonate.

You can leave, be left, or stay together forever, either way, to love was a choice you made. Carry it’s consequences, burdens, and joys with honor for it and yourself, unashamed, unafraid, and empowered by the choice you made which means the source of All Love is within you, Beautiful.